Six Meyers

Six Meyers


Joab and Emily married in 1998.
Moved to China in 2007.
Have four kids - Miriam 10, Asa 7, Salome 3 and Silas 1.

We are thankful for a full life that includes raising kids in a global world. Joab works for an American technology company and Emily does a little bit of everything- including zooming around with kids on her electric bike in a city of 21 million people.

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Sunday, March 31, 2013

Easter 2013

A quick post to share highlights from our Easter weekend.

What is an Easter morning without a new family picture!
Here is the latest Six Meyers picture.



Backyard Fun: Our Easter Saturday was a lot of fun as our neighbors had an Easter Egg hunt in their back yard.

Salome was so cute showing off her eggs, which were plastic and filled with candy.

Asa made sure to get every egg, even those perched high in the trees!

Miriam was well pleased with the bountiful amount of eggs she found.

Easter Sunday: On Sunday we enjoyed another egg hunt a variety of outdoor activities sponsored by our church - The International Church of Shanghai.

Asa enjoyed making a little pig out of a plastic egg.


Miriam braved the rock climbing wall


I wasn't able to capture Salome enjoying the jumpy castle slide,
but when she fell asleep on my lap on the way home I knew she had a good time!


Sunday, March 24, 2013

Em is still here!

Dear Joab has taken to writing more of our life down in blog posts these days. Thought I would give you a "Mom/Em" perspective on things as me today (note- what an amazing husband to even ask!) I said, that I would get adequate caffeine to make it through the day! Kind of a joke, but really I am just go-go-go most days. Most of my days start at 2 AM when my 17+ lb five month old wakes up for a feeding. Silas is so big! And he loves to nurse! I have tried to introduce solids...and he just laughs at me. I am hoping he rounds a corner soon and sleeps...we shall see.

Overall, we are doing well here in China land. This year has taught me a lot- mostly that to really live in a place that will never be home is well...hard. The goal in so many ways is to live our days here well. I sure pray we are!

Salome- oh my. She is so cute. SO VERBAL. I told her to come to lunch today and she responded with "Mommy, my Barbies are talking to me right now- I can not come to lunch". We bought some street breakfast food this morning and walked to the park- there she found another little girl and the two of them sqatted on the grass talking eating street food....

Asa- We bought a second-hand Wii game..and now Asa is in Wii heaven. Asa loves games (fun for that matter). And he and Miriam have a lot of fun together playing that. Asa still loves to make me laugh, eat a lot food (especially chocolate and bacon) and make amazing things out of Legos.

Miriam- is tackling a lot of school work like a pro. Her mind loves to learn, and she is filling it up with all kinds of stuff!

Now, Silas is up from nap. My time here is done. Lots of love to you from China- Em

Chinglish Humor

Living in China can be a source of great amusement, especially when it comes to the "creative" ways that the English language is used.  What we would call "Chinglish" or a mixture of English and Chinese is the preferred way to produce many English ads and materials.  On a recent Saturday date Emily and I ran across two places that made us smile.  

"Bar Culture" at Si Nan Mansions

The first was an "exhibit" of the Si Nan Mansions that are refurbished lane houses in the French Concession.  After reading a few of the captions it became clear what was billed as an "exhibit" comparing the daily lives of families in France and Shanghai was actually a not so subtle promotion of the government backed developer's greatness. For more commentary on the pros and cons of the development, check out this article. 

The photo that caught my attention featured a group of Western female models raising alcoholic beverages at a bar with the caption "The bar culture that blends a diversity of mainstream concepts brightens the night skies of the cities." I was unsure if they didn't care about the fact that their English didn't make any sense or if it was an intentionally convoluted sentence.

"Creative" Office Ads

The convoluted caption was nothing compared to the office development ads next to a subway stop near our home, however.  Somehow office workers lying in inter tubes, water saying and pulling out their "Superman" tattoo were suppose to convince would be tenants of the appeal of the office space.  I hope you get a good laugh out of the ad like we did.  

Oh, the simple joys of living in China - a place where things often just don't make sense.





Personally, I think the superman picture was the best; had to get a close up.
Notice that the hands, chest and face seem to be from a different guy!




Saturday, February 23, 2013

Big Daddy Date to The Aquarium and The Bund

One family tradition we have recently enjoyed starting is having "Daddy Dates" with the girls and "Guy Time" with the boys.  The big idea is to spend dedicated time with the kids.  Typically this is dedicated 1:1 time, but this past weekend we had the chance to have a very special "Daddy Date" at two of my favorite spots in Shanghai - The Shanghai Aquarium and the Bund.

At the aquarium the kids not only enjoyed creating fish themed crafts, but also interacting with the many types of fish on display



Asa, Miriam and Crystal (a good friend's daughter) stand in front of the Shark Mouth on their way into view Sharks and Sea Turtles.  As you can see from Crystal's paper they were also on a scavenger
hunt looking for facts about the sea animals.



Asa enjoyed posing with various animal figures found throughout the aquarium and the Emperor Penguin was his favorite.

At the end of the tour / scavenger hunt the kids had a chance to touch small sharks!  It was interesting to see how timid Miriam and I (Joab) were to touch them while Asa spent over a half an hour petty them like there were puppies!

 
 


At night we slept right next to the fish inside the aquarium!  In fact, the kids and I were right between two walls of Moon Jelly Fish that had neon lights shining on them.  Fortunately, the neon lights went off around mid-night and didn't come back on until about 6 am!



The time at the aquarium ended with breakfast where I found the kids had created their own jelly fish with a small coin purse and mini-flashlights!



What a special time at the aquarium with Miriam and Asa!


Since we were already in the Financial District (called Lu Jia Zui), I thought we would wander down to the Huang Pu River as it has a great view of The Bund on the west side. 

While enjoying a special treat at Starbucks on the river, Asa decided to use the muffin wrapper to create a "Muffin Man" out of his chocolate muffin.  I love this guy's creativity!

Two of my favorite buildings on The Bund are the old HSBC Bank Building (on the left) and the Customs House (on the right).  Asa joked that we were "going to London" when we cross the river to see these old buildings, which isn't too far from the truth as these are some of the most famous buildings that represent the old British Concession.



In front of the HSBC Bank Building are two iconic bank lions - one with his mouth shut and the other with his mouth wide open.  The HSBC legend is that these two lions represent two of the original bank chairmans - one that was very talkative and the other very tight lipped.  The kids and I enjoyed having fun with them - not Miriam trying to pull Asa's head out of the lion's mouth!

 
 

Monday, February 18, 2013

The search for street food

Miriam has a love...and it is for candied crab apples. We have literally spent two months hunting down sellers on the street for this common northern (Beijing) street food, but not so common here in Shanghai. The sellers have to dodge the "street cops" that like to capture these small stands (that are illegal) and also it is Chinese New Year holidays, so most sellers have returned to their home town for a month or so.

I would take Miriam on the back of the electric bike over the Chinese New
Year holiday to scout out possible areas that these sellers might be...but always came up empty handed. These candied crab apples only cost about 50 cents per stick, so so cheap and Miriam wanted one soooo badly- that I (Emily) was determined to make it happened!

Sunday night we went to our local mall to celebrate the end of the holiday (and to eat northern Chinese food- our favorite). And there at the mall!!! We found them! Miriam was - THRILLED!

From the above pictures, you can see Asa is not a big fan!!

Friday, February 15, 2013

Chinese New Year Break: Part 2 - Friends and Home

One of the other great gifts of the Chinese New Year break was visiting friends and spending time at home.

The Home Front

Before the official start of the holiday Emily did an amazing job of entertaining the kids at home.  She also had to prep extra food for the old two kids as they were off school and prepared special food for our visits to friends homes.

Here are the kids in the "tent" that Emily created in their bedroom


Emily got a new wok over the holiday; she had used her old one for over five years

New Year's with Our Chinese Friends

After living in Shanghai for over five years we were delighted when our Chinese friends, who we first met over four years ago at East China Normal University preschool, invited us into their home for traditional Chinese New Year food.  Like Christmas and Thanksgiving in the U.S. this holiday is a time for family gatherings and special foods; however, it  is our experience that Chinese people will take longer before they invite you into their home to share a special holiday meal.  What a gift to spend time with these dear friends and gain a deeper understanding of how they celebrate this holiday!

The "spread" of special dishes filled the entire dining room table. 
Some of our favorites included homemade sausage, braised pork (Hong Shao Rou)
and French Champagne (that our friend had hand carried back from France!


Our friends also spent the entire afternoon making
homemade  dumplings that filled nearly the whole desk!

Before dinner we enjoyed the tradition of lighting off fireworks - Here is Asa with a sparkler


Our friend lit a fountain firework that lit up the freshly fallen snow - a rare appearance in Shanghai.


New Year's Eve in Our Neighborhood

Walking around our neighborhood it was amazing to see all of the decorations and "signs of the season".

The kids stand in front of the mysterious children statues that seem to be everywhere. 


The fruit stand across the street was stocked full of fruit basics that nearly filled the street!

We are so thankful for several foreign families in our neighborhood who were also stayed in town for the holiday.  We spent the evening eating more food and setting off fireworks.

The "peanut gallery" of children stand watching the fireworks.

The highlight from our small fireworks display was a "Peacock Fountain"

Chinese New Year Break 2013: Part 1 - Shanghai Sites

Chinese New Year means that our two school aged kids are out of school for nearly a month.  We have been so blessed for this time to be filled with visits to local sites and time with friends.  The pictures below capture some of the sites our family saw in Shanghai during this year's holiday.

Stop #1: The Xu Jia Hui District: Shanghai's Early History

The Xu Jia Hui district is in the south west corner of Shanghai's colonial city center and literally means the "Xu family gathering place".  This district traces its history back to Mr. Xu Guang Qi who was came to faith through his work with Matteo Ricci and established the first Catholic community in the 1600's.

The kids stand in front of statue of Xu Guang Qi in a museum commemorating his life. 
Note Asa is helping us pronounce "Xu" which sounds a lot like "shoe" in English.


As a result of Xu Guang Qi's influence a significant Catholic community that  is preserved at the Tu Shan Wan Museum which commemorates an orphanage that was started in the 1800's by Jesuit Catholics.  These Catholics taught local children handicraft skills and one of their most famous carvings is a Chinese Memorial Gate (a replicate of which is behind the boys) that was featured at several World's Fairs.  Here is a great blog post that provides more pictures and a detailed history.

Asa and Elijah stand in front of a copy of the Chinese Memorial Gate


Stop #2 The Local Chinese Folk Center

Miriam's school gave us a list local museums, including the Chang Ning District Chinese Folk Center, which features a traditional neighborhood as it appeared in the 1940's.  In addition we were delighted to discover that the center featured a New Year's carnival.

Asa and Miriam stage on a small the bridge on the 1940's street. 

Miriam watches the New Year's "Wheel of Fortune" to see what prize she will win. 
She won a bar of soap:)! 


Stop #3 Holiday Displays

This year we welcome the year of the snake and it was very interesting to see all of the Chinese New Year displays across town.
 
Asa and Miriam with a Sombrero Wearing Snake

One of the most minimalist and creative snake displays was done by Calvin Klein at our mall
 
At the same mall Coke's "Santa's Workshop" was magically turned into a "Chinese New Year House"
 
 
McDonalds even got into the New Year's action by featuring a horn of the mythical "Nian" (a monster whose name sounds the same as year) poking out of the place mat.  Here is a great summary video of the Nian Story.
 

On the fifth day of the new year Shanghai welcomes the god of wealth through lighting a ridiculous amount of fireworks.  We were amused to find these god of wealth blow up dolls at a restaurant in our mall.